Sometime when I come across to the blog which talk about parenting, I will just simply browse through. This is because I am not interested on that topic. Although it just a browse through, I can feel those mothers (I never see got father blog about parenting yet, tell me if you know some)will talk about how they love their kid, how graceful of their kid too~!
I used to look after my nephews when they were kid. I confess that I am lack of patient on doing that, I am so easily to get mad. They were mischievous! However, I rarely scold them clamorously or beat them. No matter how bad they are, they are my nephews. I know my mum loves them so much, so and I. But the story is different when it comes across to my neighbour.
After we moved in HEAF, we can listen a mother who always 'lecturing' her children in a very HIGH pitch, everyday. During I poop, pee, shower, cooking, brushing teeths… We can listen it from early morning till evening, very clearly. Sometime, the mother even cursing her kid, and scold them STUPID KID! Although I don't know what happen exactly, but I don't think this is the good method to educate your kid. I really feel sympathy to that kid…
I know some of my readers are mother of kid, will you scold your kid in such way? Or someday when you have a kid, will you torturing them in such way?
October 24th, 2007 at 4:09 pm
Won’t hit my lil cousins, but will scold them if they r naughty..
October 24th, 2007 at 7:12 pm
If I am a dad, I won’t do that to him if he doesn’t study but I will do that to him if he didn’t blog properly like his dad.
Just kidding…
October 25th, 2007 at 12:43 am
I see a lot of mothers and fathers yelling at their kids on public places here. Perhaps they are ashamed that their kids are making tantrum in public but it’s still wrong. Many parents have the required financial to support children but don’t have the required mental quality to take care of their children.
October 25th, 2007 at 8:03 am
#Edward,
That’s good
#Wayne,
I wonder blogging still hit on that time or not… haha…
#Cherry,
Yes, I am agreed. If you are not ready to take care a kid, better don’t have them first.
October 26th, 2007 at 11:04 am
A lot of things to learn after become parents.. Parenting is a learning process, while bring up and teaching our child, we as parents also teaching ourselves.
October 26th, 2007 at 11:20 am
#WanChin,
wish you will be a good mother~
October 28th, 2007 at 12:20 pm
Good to hear from a single that you want to do parenting post…